The Beginning of Bad a Relationship

3.  Criticism:  A vague blaming. "You" statements.  Focus on person not behavior.  A flaw in person.  Global statements.  Somewhat attacking.     

3. Raised anxiety and fear.  Raised blood pressure, increased BPM& breathing rate, muscles tighten, eyes dilate, reduced digestion, elevated blood sugar, etc.  Increase in Flight/Fight

Anyone who says to his brother, ‘Raca is answerable to the Sanhedrin.

Raca is calling a brother or sister “stupid”. A lack of listening and patiently allowing others to have a private opinion. 

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