Saturday, July 27, 2013

Family Roles in the Bible



The Bible is vastly different from every other holy book. For example it tells the raw and shocking truth about the Heroes of our Faith. Moses was not only a great deliverer but a deceitful killer and coward. Elijah wanted to die and considered suicide. Jacob's mom stole first born son's guaranteed birthright and gave it to her second son. And, the second generation of humans started off with a really dysfunctional family with the Elder Brother killing the younger.

Most old holy books tell incredible stories about the heroic men who ruled Egypt or Greece but did not reveal much about their flaws. The Bible exalts God but not man. Yes, we are created in His image as Ambassadors of the King but we are all fallen and need redemption by a merciful King.  The great exploits are not by the energy of humans but despite our energy and drive. This is why the Bible tells the gory details of individual and family life and always emphasizes we are saved by grace not our works.

For example, take a look at Luke 15 and read the story of the family there. It has everything modern families have. A son tells his dad he wishes he were dead so he could collect his inheritance. The father enables the rebellious son by giving him the inheritance that he does not deserve.  The Elder Brother hates the younger and tries to get him permanently banned from the estate.  So the families' severe dysfunctions are laid bare yet it is a favorite story for Christian preachers.

This is, of course, a parable to show brokenness and redemption with only one good character in the story. How Uptight or Anxious do you think the Luke 15 family was? Take a look at the Power Point below and think about the kids and how peaceful or uptight they were.




Did you come up with a level of Anxiety for that family on the scale? Do you think you are ready to take on my entire book? Be careful! It might bite you if you start thinking you can change your family! How to be Me in My Family Tree




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