Friday, February 14, 2014

Helping People in Pain 3




Some people's pain is deeper than others. When I started teaching Pastors and Counselors in Asia it became apparent that my students had a tendency to lump everybody into the same diagnostic bucket. They had been overly influenced by Western Psychotherapy and called everyone with a mental, emotional and relational problem "Mentally Ill". Maybe I need to add another term to this designation: "Hopelessly Mentally Ill". I needed to innovate so I came up with new chartts.

 My Asian friends already had a system of differentiating people by how far away or antagonistic they were to the church. I adopted and modified their system. In my system, people are differentiated like this.


Levels of Problems and Pain
Type A Persons: No life-interrupting problems

Level I Very mature and healthy individuals

  • Able to lead if equipped
  • Strong in relationships and self control
  • Stable and deal with life’s problems
  • Full range of emotional life
  • Not blown about by every new thing--Need: Leadership training

Level II Can vary in healthy lifestyles from weak to developing

  • Some are fragile but dealing with life
  • Symptoms of weaknesses can be identified
  • Need to be discipled and equipped for ministry--Need: Challenge to grow and be trained
Type B Persons: Differing types and intensity of problems

Level III Ongoing issues and problems that cause disruptions

  • Worried or anxious, sad, angry, conflicts and dissatisfied with life
  • Misses appointments, sleeplessness, low performance, relational problems
  • Is strong enough to work and learn from counsel
  • No harmful thoughts about self or others  Need: Lay care, counsel, support-friends and family

Level IV Ongoing problems and pain

  • Issues getting worse
  • Cannot meet personal, work, family or school responsibilities and cannot change
  • Misses appointments due to depression, anxiety, stress, drinking, etc
  • Cannot concentrate, does very poor work, scattered thoughts
  • Compulsive behaviors with food, gambling, anger, drugs
  • Unresolved conflicts--Need: Refer to Professional Counseling

Level V Acute Pain

  • Lay and Professional counseling have failed to help so pain increases
  • Cannot manage school or work
  • Ideas are distorted, cannot manage life or relationships
  • Dangerous use of alcohol, food, drugs
  • Thoughts of harming self or others

Need: Intensive care in a safe place


Interested in learning more??? Hope and Change for Humpty Dumpty



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