90% of the people suffering from a damaged heart and mind never seek Counseling from a Pastor or Clinical Counselor. There are too many barriers to asking for help from a professional.
What are the barriers?
1. Fear of being labeled as "sick" by the Minister or Counselor.
2. Fear of being called "Mentally Ill" and never recovering from it.
3. Fear of exposure to others.
4. Fear of exposing a loved one as a bad person.
5. Fear of "Dishonoring" a parent.
6. Fear of being blamed for the problem, especially if sex was involved.
7. Fear of being labeled as having no faith in God.
8. Financial anxiety if a Counselor is suggested.
9. Fear of "Breaking Down" and seeming weak.
10. (YOU ADD)
That is one reason we set up a Lay Caring Ministry at College Hill and equipped people all over the world to do the same. People will often meet and interact in informal settings and the Lay people equipped to care can minister gently by listening at any time.
fter listening and refusing to interrupt, share Power Christian Thinking to them.
Listening with understanding and love can uncover and begin to heal so much of the long term pain and break the dam of fear.
In Asia we equipped hundreds of Cell Group Leaders to Care, Counsel, and Coach their members, by listening and loving with patience. Growth and healing in those groups burst forth and multitudes gave glowing testimonies. Your church can do the same, if you want.
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