Forget bed bugs. There's a new parasite moving into apartments. This one has two feet, a sex drive, and travels with a duffel bag.
The now defunct williamsboard.com called them "sex gypsies"--people who hook up largely so they have a place to stay. They're not quite homeless, but they'd rather go to your place than theirs. . . .
Williamsburg [blogress] Lulu, 29, wasn't surprised when her boyfriend told her he used to be a sex gypsy. "I already knew he'd gone through a period of drug addiction," she says. "If that's the worst thing you do when you're a junkie, you're doing OK."
Lulu says that women often take in sex gypsies because, "women are socialized to take care of others, and dating in general is pretty stacked towards the dudes in north Brooklyn." . . .
Emily, 37, a scriptwriter from the Upper East Side, was upset that her actor boyfriend broke up with her, left for LA--and then sex gypsied her.
"He rekindled it a month later so he could 'spend the weekend' with me," she says, "which I realized later was because he didn't want to get a hotel room and had a bunch of auditions in NYC."Here are my comments and my questions:
How can well educated women make such terrible decisions? Are they so desperate for care that they will narcissistic males to exploit them like this?
Has modern feminism so destroyed the ability of modern women that they cannot make a rational decision?
Do they fail to look out the door and see what is knocking to get in the house for free sex, free food and a free bed?
Have we reared such confused women that they are paralyzed with fear about making decisions?
Have we eliminated their ability to see evil and call it evil?
To be able to take stands for self protection and a commitment to values read my books on Christian growth and healing.Lulu actually thinks the guy is admirable to take advantage of her money, her sexual favors and her home. Admirable! He is a scumbag!
Some find terrorists admirable. This kind of confusion comes from a culture where kids have grown up with an deep inability to say anything is wrong in the sexual arena. This is the LEAD RULE in full operation.
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